Our SUCCESS at friendship ,love – of course almost all activities we attempt is largely determined by our own self image. People who have confidence in their personal worth seems to be magnets for success and happiness. Good things drop into their laps regularly, their RELATIONSHIPS are long lasting , their projects are usually carried to completion . To use the poetic imagery they “catch joy on the wing”………………
Conversely , some people seem to be magnets for failure and unhappiness. Their plans go awry, they have a way of destroying their own potential successes and nothing seems to work out for them. Their problems usually stem from a difficulty with SELF-ACCEPTANCE. When they are helped to gain more CONFIDENCE ……………….
Anyone can change his SELF PERCEPTION .a person with low self image is doomed to a life of unhappiness and failure . it is possible to get rid of negative attitudes and gain the healthy CONFIDENCE needed to realize one’s dreams …………….
Many feel that because they are not as smart or good looking or witty as others , they feel inferior .
Probably we find that someone is indeed smarter , better looking or wittier , it diminishes our sense of SELF OTHERS ….. WHY LOOKING OTHERS YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOURSELVES……
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I agree that it depends entirely on us to create or feel self worth. But this self worth is also influenced by various other things including family support and background of a person.
ReplyDeletePhysical attributes of a person might help in increasing self worth but we must remember that it is not permanent and it is finally the capacity and the ability of a person which helps in raising self worth.
Every person is different and has some special talent. At times we fail to notice the talent and get carried away with the flow.
We must take some time to look within and search for that special ability that we possess and work on improving it further.
Looks are purely a physical attribute and easily beaten by talent. So just don’t bother to waste time looking at others and their special talents. Use that time to develop something for yourself and make your future bright……